If you’re contemplating filing for divorce, you may be wondering: How does divorce mediation work? A mediator can help you negotiate a settlement without the involvement of a judge or court. Divorce mediation differs from court-based mediation in several important ways. The mediator is not a principal player in the proceedings. Instead, he or she works to help you reach a reasonable agreement that will benefit both you and your children.

Preparation is key to successful divorce mediation

During mediation, the key to a successful outcome is preparation. Before you attend the mediation, you should gather all the relevant documents. You can work with your lawyer to organize these documents and prepare for them. Organize financial documents, appraisals, and any other pertinent information. It is helpful to know your spouse’s position as well. It is important that you have an idea of what he or she wants and what he or she is willing to give up.

If you have children, it is essential that you spend time with them and let them know that both parents love them. Make sure you talk to them about what divorce means for them. Children need both parents and should know they are loved by both parents. If you have children, talk about it with your spouse before the mediation. You can also use mediation to express your wishes. If possible, bring them along to the meeting with you.

As mentioned before, you can save time and money by preparing ahead of time. … Read the rest >>>